How it works
A calmer way to meet someone, built around who you are rather than how fast you can swipe.
1. Create your account
Sign up with Google or with your email. You must be 18 or over. You choose what you consent to, and you can change your mind at any time in Settings.
2. Your basic profile
Your first name, who you would like to meet, where you live, the languages you speak, your intention and one photo.
3. A short first round of questions
About ten minutes. Some questions are direct, some are small everyday scenarios. There are no right answers. More question packs unlock later, and every pack you complete makes your matches more accurate.
4. Dealbreakers
On any question you can mark answers you would not accept in a partner. We never introduce you to someone who does not fit them, and the same applies in reverse.
5. Three introductions a day
Around 9:00, 14:00 and 20:00 in your time zone we send one match at a time. Each shows a first name, age, city, a compatibility score and three things you share.
6. Talk first, then see
Either of you can start the conversation. Photos unlock once you have both sent a message. To keep things respectful, the person who writes first can send one message until the other replies.
7. Not for you?
Press Not for me and, if you like, tell us why. We use your feedback to adjust your future introductions.